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August 24th marked our 3rd Anniversary of marriage. We often joke that we tricked each other into marrying each other because the longer we're together the more opposite we discover we are. This, however, has worked out perfectly. I have learned so much from Seth, and been able to improve myself in ways that I'm positive wouldn't have happened if I had married someone exactly like me. We really are a good team. Now, I usually don't like to blog about anniversaries and Valentine's Day and things of that nature because they seem cheesy and forced. So instead of having a long drawn out made up post about how Seth comes home every night riding a white horse, I'm going to list 3 things I absolutely love about my Hubby.

1. He is positive. And optimistic. He has taught me it's no use dwelling on possible negative outcomes, but to live happily and deal with the bad times as they come, but not to expect them. He sees good in everyone and always gives people the benefit of the doubt, which I sometimes have a hard time doing.

2. He is never critical of me and my shortcomings. I can honestly say I have never heard a word of criticism from him. He has never told me I look anything but beautiful, never reprimanded me for letting the house become a disaster zone, or for not making dinner, nothing. What a blessing that is. I was used to being praised growing up and although he doesn't hand out compliments like pretzels, he never ever says anything negative about my looks or conduct. It would be extremely difficult for me to function if someone was forever critical of me.

3. He strives. He strives to be the best husband he can be, the best father, an incredible provider, a reliable friend, supportive son/brother/uncle/son-in-law. If he ever suspects he could do better at something he puts his whole self into making it happen. I've never met someone so bent on self improvement and action. He makes the most of each day and each relationship. I'm working on being more self motivated like him.

Marriage isn't a breeze, but it is so worth it. I'm so glad I found someone capable of bringing out the best in me and that inspires me to be better everyday.

(4. he has a nice bum)